Take responsibility and stop talking out of your arse!

I notice that people like to spew motivational comments when they are unable to practice what they preach. Hypocrites! Talk the truth and stop talking out of your ass! You look like a fool, lose all credibility, and lose any respect I may have had for you. My expectation of general goodness is lost on those who just can not manage to be honest. What is there to hide?

If you have something to say, make sure that you actually believe what is being said. Talking shit only enforces your idiocracy and lunacy!

Why do I bother sometimes?

I have the urge to make dinner for everyone. This doensn't always happen like this. I get requests to make something in particular, I want to eat something specific, or I'm too tired to make anything so everyone must fend for themselves. I sometimes don't know 'how to' make dinner just for me; the result is leftovers, or food for the masses.

For those who come in to eat, well, eat it and be thankful. I don't want to hear how I should have made it or a completely new recipe that doesn't even resemble my final dish.

Just shut up and eat it! Or don't eat it! So many comments; as my grandma used to say "Too many cooks, get out of the kitchen!"

Why do I bother sometimes? I thought I was being helpful, but the problem is that I was 'expecting' some sort of appreciation for my efforts. I have to remind myself AGAIN, to just do it for the pleasure and whatever happens, happens (or doens't happen).

I think this is an endless battle; and instead of letting this get the best of me...I need to just ACCEPT IT FOR WHAT IT IS!

And to all those who want to 'suggest' to me how it should be done...well.....make it your damn self!

Rude tendencies and funny outcomes

Not only does one have to contend with the numerous of nosey strangers peering over my shoulder to get a glimpse at what I'm doing on my laptop, but I also have to endure their stares because of the eavesdropping. I've said it only once before, but it seems that I should say it more often, "Do you mind? It's extremely rude to be listening in on my conversation."

It can be funny because I'm not talking very loud, hence their need to really concentrate on listening to me; their furrowed brows and blank-looking stares at the stain on the wall. I do my best at no talking loud. When I find myself raising my voice, I usually walk away or go to the privacy of my car.

I may have been one of those people you see, locked in their car and yelling on the phone. I’ve seen it and usually begin to start laughing at the animated actions of the stranger. It is also the same when you see a person walking and talking with themselves. Now days, it is more likely that they are not the crazy lunatic that escaped from the local Psyche hospital but more likely just a dude talking on a hands-free device plugged into their ear.

We have all encountered these people; you think they are talking to you, you answer them but they don’t respond back to you. It’s because they are not talking to you...oooh just got burned! You think to yourself, “great, they could’ve waved or pointed to their ear-piece...” Maybe this little display made you look like an idiot, but we’ve all been through it.

Here is a great excuse to walk around like a lunatic. It is a also great way to annoy strangers and keep people away from you. Especially those “watchtower” seniors who want you to stop your stride to talk to them...um, just as rude!